New Season, New Beginnings

Where do I even start? An entire season has passed and not a word from me. I like to write, but to write while there are so many other things to be done – working, making sure my toddler doesn’t knock over the vase on the table, making dinner, folding clothes, washing dishes, spending time with my husband, washing more dishes (because it is just the most never-ending cycle in the history of time when you don’t have a dishwasher) – writing is 100% of the time put on the side. Writing is pushed into the couch cushions and forgotten, and then when I’m looking for my phone that was hidden from me by a my own personal three-foot human tornado, I find that ‘will to write’ next to the phone and think, oh right, my blog still exists. There are a handful of people that would like to hear from me.

So here I am again.

July and August went by quickly. It was winter here, but winter 2015 in Santiago was balmy. It didn’t rain good and hard until mid-August, so we were stuck with that smog for much longer than we wanted.

Joaquin began saying more words this winter. He says hola, chau, vamos, bravo, mama, zapato (papapo) and some others. His only English word is banana (balala), and that word comes from Spanish, so it’s safe to say that Spanish is his dominant language. Now that he’s saying a bit more, we can see how much more he understands. He understands my commands in English, and the parts of his body in English, like nose, ears, eyes, belly button, teeth, mouth, tongue. But, he also knows where other body parts are in Spanish, like cabeza, manos, brazos y piernas (thanks to a horribly annoying educational Chilean TV show that I detest with all my soul).

He waves goodbye, blows kisses and his new thing is to say chau and wave goodbye to me on the sidewalk and start walking in the other direction like he’s off to his first day of college. He’s always been blindly independent…takes after me.


September was a much more fun month. I only had to work the first week of the month and then I had two weeks vacation. Andrés and I were able to take a mom-and-dad only trip to Brazil, while my mom and Julia manned down the house and had Joaquin all to themselves for a week. Everything worked out pretty perfectly…except for the 8.4 earthquake the night before we were coming back home. We got a message from my mom when we were at dinner to the effect of “Yikes! Earthquake!” and I thought, well, they’ve never felt an earthquake before, so it was probably just a small tremor.  Except not, and it was actually the biggest earthquake recorded worldwide so far for 2015. So, yes, kind of a big deal. Andrés and I were not in Chile for the earthquake in 2010, and now we missed the one in 2015. We feel left out. So unfortunately, my poor mom and sister had no idea what to do (we don’t really need to have earthquake drills in the midwest) and wanted to run out into the street (which is really not what you’re supposed to do). Thankfully our neighbor Manuela calmed them down and told them to just stay put.  

Our trip to Brazil was lovely. We decided not to let the rainy weather bring us down and we were able to see a lot of really beautiful places. We stayed in Cabo Frio, a city 2 hours east of Rio de Janeiro, and visited Buzios and Arraial do Cabo on two separate days. We spent our last day in Rio and were able to go up the Sugarloaf Mountain and spend some time at Copacabana.  


At one of the million beaches we visited that week.



“…At the Copa-Copacabana”


It was a time of rest that we needed, so we came back missing our bubs and excited to spend a few days all together with Julia, Mom and Joaquin.

We are normal, I promise.

Joaquin caption: Is it too late to get out of this family of weirdos??

Sadly on the 21st, reality struck and we went back to ‘routine’ mode. Joaquin wasn’t super excited to return to daycare, though I can’t say I blame him. Spending two weeks with all attention from Grandma and Aunt Juju understandably has that effect on a return to real life. I was equally un-excited to be back at work.

And in upcoming news, Andrés’ visa interview will take place on October 7 at the US Embassy in Santiago. As I’ve told some, it’s more or less a formality to ask him a few questions and be able to issue him his resident visa. We have 6 months to move to the USA, so it’s a real deal!  Freak out mode has not officially begun, but it will probably come round January when we have both left our jobs, have no income and no house and are leaving the place we’ve called home for 3+ years (and many more in Andrés’ case). Yeah, I could pretty easily freak out around then. But God provides. He always has, and He always will. He’s never left us out in the dark, and I know that He won’t now. I’m actually pretty calm about everything right now, probably because I think back on to when my life started in Chile and have seen how amazing God has been to my family. So, 2016 will not be any different.

Sorry Sampaoli, But You Don’t Deserve Any Wins

Last night, one of Chile’s best players was in a car wreck on his way back to the team’s headquarters. He was fine and no one died, thank goodness. However, it was quickly confirmed that he was inebriated, and he was coming from a casino with his wife as his nice little “activity” for his afternoon off from team activities during the Copa America.


This is not the first time that a Chilean football player has had issues with drinking and driving. A few years ago, goalie Johnny Herrera hit and killed a pedestrian while he was driving under the influence. Is he in jail? Nope. He’s sitting on the bench representing the Chilean National Team as their substitute goalie, and was only required to pay the family a settlement of about $30,000. I have major issues with this. Why is a 3rd degree murderer representing the country? Why was he let go with no jail time? Why, after it all happened, was he found driving drunk for a second time, and then later brought up to play with the National Team? It’s disgusting.

So now to not too much of my surprise, teary-eyed Arturo Vidal appeared in a press conference alongside Head Coach Jorge Sampaoli, apologized profusely and according to Sampaoli, is OK to play. His coach says he is a player “that has given us everything.” “What we need to do is include him.” So that makes everything alright, let’s just move on, nothing to see here. We have the Copa America to win, a mere drunk driving accident is just another day in the life of a multi-million dollar football player. You have money, you have talent, you have immunity.


Press conference Vidal had a much different attitude than drunk-driver Vidal. Red in the face, he said, “I am sorry, I have failed everyone.” And to think, less than 24 hours ago, Vidal was recorded saying to the arresting officer, “fine, cuff me, but you’re gonna f**k over all of Chile.” And, just a short period of time after that, he recorded a video posted to Twitter saying, “I’m fine, my family is fine, it was not my fault. Thanks for your thoughts.”

I’m all about forgiveness. I follow Christ. However, I think he (and Herrera) do not deserve the merit of representing their country. They have not proven it.

Still, I can read between the lines.

Sampaoli: we will let him play = winning games = job security = money.

Vidal: I am sorry = don’t take away my paycheck = money.

How embarrassing. If this is what the Chilean National Team is about, which after today, I think it is…sorry, but your organization does not deserve to raise the Copa America. What a complete shame for Chile.